Quotes With Meaning
(In reference to swingers) In the meantime, if you wish to declare yourself polyamorous, get used to the fact that the confusion is gong to remain as a pejorative. Sure, clear up the misunderstanding as much as you can, but don't put too much effort into setting yourself up as a "good", responsible, community-oriented polyamorist by contrasting yourself to the "bad" swingers - they may not be your siblings, but they're definitely your cousins.
(In reference to swingers) In the meantime, if you wish to declare yourself polyamorous, get used to the fact that the confusion is gong to remain as a pejorative. Sure, clear up the misunderstanding as much as you can, but don't put too much effort into setting yourself up as a "good", responsible, community-oriented polyamorist by contrasting yourself to the "bad" swingers - they may not be your siblings, but they're definitely your cousins.
This quote discusses the challenges faced by those who identify as polyamorous, particularly in relation to how society perceives various non-traditional relationship styles, like swinging. It highlights that while one can strive to clarify misconceptions about polyamory, negative stereotypes will persist. Ravenscroft advises against overly differentiating oneself from swingers to establish a 'better' identity. Instead, he suggests acknowledging the commonalities within these relationship styles, even if they are not directly related. Embracing this mindset can foster a sense of belonging and acceptance among diverse relationship practices. Ultimately, it encourages individuals to focus on their own beliefs and experiences rather than seeking validation through comparison with others.