Quotes With Meaning
I have to wonder if you're not being slightly naive here. I mean, are you saying that you want nothing for people? You have no motives? Everybody has motives. Name the person, the circumstances, I'll name the motive. Even saints have motives -- to feel like saints, probably. ... But still, the point of any relationship is obtaining something from another person.
I have to wonder if you're not being slightly naive here. I mean, are you saying that you want nothing for people? You have no motives? Everybody has motives. Name the person, the circumstances, I'll name the motive. Even saints have motives -- to feel like saints, probably. ... But still, the point of any relationship is obtaining something from another person.
The quote highlights the complexity of human relationships and suggests that everyone has underlying motives, even in seemingly altruistic actions. Rachman argues that wanting something from others is a natural part of interactions, whether it's emotional fulfillment, validation, or even the desire to be seen as virtuous. He challenges the idea that people can act without motives, pointing out that even those who appear selfless have their reasons, such as the joy of feeling good about themselves. This perspective encourages a deeper understanding of human behavior and the dynamics that drive our connections. Relationships are not merely about giving; they involve an exchange where both parties seek to gain something meaningful. Recognizing this can lead to more authentic interactions and personal growth.